Behavioral question
Tell me about a time you had a disagreement with a team member.
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What this question tests
Whether you can navigate real interpersonal conflict productively while fairly representing the other side.
How to approach it
- Pick a real, specific disagreement with a peer, not a manufactured story where you were obviously right.
- State the Situation: what the project was and what was at stake for the team.
- State the Task: what decision needed to be made and why you and the colleague disagreed.
- Describe the Action: how you understood their reasoning, presented your case with data, and pushed toward resolution, such as a small test.
- Give the Result: the outcome, what was decided, and how the working relationship was afterward.
- Confirm with the interviewer if they want a peer conflict specifically, since the prompt says team member rather than manager or report.
What a strong answer includes
- Shows a genuine disagreement with real stakes, not a softball where the other person was clearly wrong.
- Demonstrates listening to the colleague's reasoning in their own terms before pushing back.
- Uses a concrete resolution mechanism, such as proposing an A/B test to settle the debate on data instead of authority.
- Shows the working relationship survived or improved afterward, signaling maturity rather than lingering resentment.
Common mistakes
- Choosing a story where the other person was obviously wrong, which reads as self-serving.
- Failing to explain the colleague's perspective in their own terms before defending your own.
Likely follow-up questions
- What would you have done if the test had proven you wrong?
- How do you handle a disagreement when there is no way to test and settle it with data?
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Learn the skill behind it
Chapters of the AI PM course that teach what this question tests.
- Chapter 13: Lead the room: staff moves, forward-deployed PM, and the portfolio
- Chapter 14: Get the job: the AI PM interview loop